One of my New Year's Goals was to get back into reading for personal enjoyment. Between our busy schedules, keeping up with household duties, and Peyton, it's easy for me to put something like reading a book on the back burner. However, I have been managing to work it into my schedule somehow, and I've decided that I want to read at least one book per month this year. I used to read at least 25 books per year when I was a teacher and challenge my students to do the same. Therefore, 12 books in a year should be no problem. I figure if I give myself an entire month then I can manage to get the book read. To hold myself accountable, I want to review each book here on the blog...so today I'm sharing my book from January!
Here is a synopsis from Amazon.com:
In Lisa Genova’s extraordinary New York Times bestselling novel, an accomplished professor diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease learns that her worth is comprised of more than her ability to remember.
Alice Howland is proud of the life she worked so hard to build. At fifty years old, she’s a cognitive psychology professor at Harvard and a world-renowned expert in linguistics with a successful husband and three grown children. When she becomes increasingly disoriented and forgetful, a tragic diagnosis changes her life—and her relationship with her family and the world—forever.
Here is an Editorial Review from Barnes and Noble:
This may be one of the most frightening novels you'll ever read. It's certainly one of the most unforgettable. Genova's debut revolves around Alice Howland - Harvard professor, gifted researcher and lecturer, wife, and mother of three grown children. One day, Alice sets out for a run and soon realizes she has no idea how to find her way home. It's a route she has taken for years, but nothing looks familiar. She is utterly lost. Is her forgetfulness the result of menopausal symptoms? A ministroke? A neurological cancer? After a few doctors' appointments and medical tests, Alice has her diagnosis, and it's a shocker -- she has early-onset Alzheimer's disease.
What follows is the story of Alice's slow but inevitable loss of memory and connection with reality, told from her perspective. She gradually loses the ability to follow a conversational thread, the story line of a book, or to recall information she heard just moments before. To Genova's great credit, readers learn of the progression of Alice's disease through the reactions of others, as Alice does, so they feel what she feels -- a slowly building terror.
In Still Alice, Genova, who has a Ph.D. in neuroscience from Harvard, uniquely reveals the experience of living with Alzheimer's. Hers is an unusual book -- both a moving novel and an important read.
My thoughts on the book:
First and foremost, I love this author. Dr. Lisa Genova (author) holds a Ph.D. from Harvard University in neuroscience which leads me to believe that she has the educational background and knowledge to be able to tackle something as difficult as portraying a disease like Alzheimer's accurately. She also did extensive research. After reading this book, I read an interview with her about all of the preparations she did prior to writing it. Her professional background and Ph.D. gave her an all access pass to the right people and information. She worked with the leading physicians and scientists in Alzheimer's research, genetic counselors, neuropsychological testing experts, caregiver support experts...basically anyone who is an expert in all things related to the research and treatment of Alzheimer's disease. She also spent time working with a variety of actual patients, caregivers, and their families to best understand the disease from all sides and how it is experienced by all parties involved. Having been at the center of caring for someone with Alzheimer's recently, I would say that her depiction is spot on. In addition, this book has been given the "stamp of approval" by the Alzheimer's Association, which is not something they normally do; however, they found this book to be valuable and accurate enough to do so. Kudos to Lisa Genova for executing this project so well. Now, on to the actual book itself...
You need to read this book. Seriously, go out and buy it right now. Especially if you have a loved one or know someone who currently is or has suffered from Alzheimer's disease. This book will change your entire perception on the disease, that person, everything. I love how Genova chose to present the story from Alice's perspective, it is so powerful in that way. We are able to see Alice's struggles first hand, as well as her thoughts about what is going on inside her head. From the outside, it is hard to understand what Alzheimer's patients are thinking or feeling, and what it must be like to not be able to make those cognitive connections. This book gives you a glimpse into their minds. Not only do you feel empathy for Alice, but you can start to feel her frustration and anxiety as her mind slowly deteriorates. Genova intentionally writes the later half of the story in a way that mimics the way Alice's brain is functioning as the disease progresses. It's repetitive, chunks are missing, it's hard to follow, it's confusing and difficult to comprehend. It makes you as the reader feel like you are experiencing disease yourself. Reading it requires a lot of focus and frustration, which immediately made me understand how trying and difficult it must be to have to feel that way 24 hours a day. That is what makes this book so eye-opening and powerful.
My personal experience with Alzheimer's disease comes from caring for my grandmother. She is currently living in a long-term memory care facility because the disease has put her beyond the type of care that we were able to provide for her at home. She now requires full time service by memory care professionals. Prior to Peyton's birth and my grandma's move into memory care, I would visit her at least once per week to spend time with her and take her places. I would observe her and try to understand as best I could what she was going through and how I could best help her. I'm so glad that I read this book because I feel like more than ever, I now have a better understanding of what she must be feeling and why she did some of the things that I observed. Throughout the book, I kept thinking of her. As Alice progressed in the disease, I felt like I was reliving the past 6 years with my grandma. I kept stopping as I was reading and thinking to myself, "yes, yes, that is exactly what happens!". Of course this was saddening and hard for me to read because it hits so close to home, but it was also enlightening and inspirational. This book really made me appreciate my grandma more than ever before. Beyond what I am even capable of articulating here. Thinking about her disease and her suffering used to make me feel angry, lost and frustrated in so many ways. Why is this happening to her? Why is she acting this way? What is going on? Why can't I help her or stop it? Why, Why Why? But now, I feel at peace with the whole thing. I get it. I understand why she does and acts the way she does. I understand my role in her life. I understand (as much as is even remotely possible) how she feels. I get it. I've accepted it. I can enjoy the time I have left with her and appreciate what she still has to offer to my life.
Can you believe it? A 292 page fictional book did all of that to me. Which is why I am telling you, you must read this book. A movie version of this story did come out last month, which I'm sure is great and I fully plan on seeing that as well. However, if you want the full experience then you have to read the actual book. Not even listening to it on tape will suffice. If you want to truly feel Alice's frustrations and struggles, you have to read her words. You will not get that experience from listening or watching. If you want all of the power that this book can provide, you have to read it. Trust me, it's worth it and you will never forget it.
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Friday, February 13, 2015
Tuesday, February 10, 2015
Peyton's 1st Disney Trip
I love Disney. Probably more so than is really appropriate for any 27 year old adult to love Disney. We used to go to Disney World all the time when I was a kid, we even had annual passes back before they cost a small fortune. Jared proposed to me at Disney, it's just my favorite place ever. Therefore, it was only a matter of time before I would be itching to take Peyton to Disney. In fact, the minute I found out that she was a girl, I was already planning out our future Disney trips in my head. "Who would be her favorite princess? What was she going to wear? I better start looking for monogrammed outfits now." There have been so many exciting "firsts" for Peyton this year, but I have to say that taking her to Disney was the most anticipated and exciting one of all, for me at least.
Back before I actually had a kid, I always said that I wouldn't take my kid to Disney until they were old enough to "appreciate" it. Yeah right. I should have known that was a never going to happen. Then I had a kid, and if it were up to me we would have gone to Disney straight from the hospital. Ok, not really. But basically ever since Peyton arrived, I've been dying to take her even though I know she won't remember it or even appreciate it at this age. However, I will remember it and my family will remember it, and we will appreciate it forever. In light of some unexpected and tragic events in my family over the years, I've learned that we cannot take a single day or a single occasion for granted. I no longer wait around for the "perfect" time to do something or put off things that I want to experience for a "better" time. There is no "perfect" time for anything. We are not guaranteed a tomorrow and I want Peyton to have as many special experiences as possible with the people who love her. Going to Disney with my parents and grandparents were always such special memories for me as a kid (even the trips I don't remember but have photographs of), and I want Peyton to be able to look back fondly on those memories just the same. So maybe taking a 7 month old to Disney is insane, but I know that the 8 of us adults still had a blast escaping to the Happiest Place on Earth and sharing in these cherished moments with Peyton. She might forget, but we never will.
Peyton and her entourage: Uncle Chris and Aunt Melissa, Auntie Erika, Daddy and Mommy, Grandma DeeDee, Grammy and Papa Jim
We arrived on Saturday (January 31st) afternoon and got all settled into our hotel room. We stayed at a new Disney hotel that I had never been to before, Disney's Art of Animation Resort.
Peyton (and us too!) loved exploring the hotel! It has four different sections all themed after different animated Disney movies (Finding Nemo, Lion King, Cars and Little Mermaid). We stayed in the Finding Nemo area of the hotel, which is closest to the main lobby and has the biggest pool at the resort! I can't wait to come back and stay at this hotel again and actually utilize the pool and other amenities. This hotel is perfect for families with young children. It is so fun and colorful, fully immersed in the art of Disney animation. In fact, all of the "decor" in the Finding Nemo area is designed to scale as if you were the size of Nemo! It's like you are really inside the movie. I was truly amazed by how cool this place is, so I can only imagine what kids must think of it.
Peyton loved our Finding Nemo room at the hotel! They spare no detail in decorating these rooms. There were even sharks in the shower! What I loved most about this hotel was the layout of these rooms. They feature family suites which include a private bedroom with bathroom, a living room with a couch that folds out into a bed, a second bathroom (which is amazing if you are traveling with a large family!), an eating area which features a table that folds up and transforms into another bed, and a kitchenette (which included the necessary fridge I needed to store breastmilk). This room can technically sleep 6 adults, but we only had 4 adults and Peyton in here and it was plenty of room. What a great idea! These rooms are perfect for big families, multiple families traveling together, or multi-generational families like ours.
Peyton wanted to sleep with Grandma DeeDee on her Nemo bed, but she had to go in her Pack-n-Play instead. I just love her adorable Disney Princess pajamas for the occasion!
Sunday morning (February 1st), we were up early and ready to take on the Magic Kingdom! Of course, Peyton had a special outfit for the occasion!
I'm so glad that Jared and I were able to have both of our families there for this special moment!
Disney is exhausting! I'm so proud of how well Peyton did. She was in the park with us for about 8 hours and she was awesome. She took one solid nap (which gave us times to go do some of the big kid rides) and she was in a great mood the rest of the time. She absolutely loved being at Magic Kingdom! I knew she would, it's genetic :)
The last time we were here was two years ago when we were just beginning fertility treatments and we needed to get away from all the stress and sadness that came along with that process. I'm was so overjoyed to finally be back and getting to share my love for Disney with our greatest blessing ever!
Mommy is a slacker and forgot to bring my child a hat. You're going to Disney World, to be outside in the sun all day and you don't bring the 7 month old a hat. Mommy fail. So I got to buy this super tacky, touristy looking Mickey hat in the park for her to wear. Luckily, this child can basically make anything look adorable so I'd say she did a pretty good job of rocking it :)
She loved every minute of this carousel ride. I think she could have stayed on it all day. In fact, she even got a little upset when we had to leave the carousel.
Don't worry Peyton, this is only the first of many, many times that mommy and Grandma DeeDee will probably be bringing you to Disney World!
A family friend of ours owns an embroidery business and made all of these adorable onesies and bibs for Peyton. I found the design ideas that I liked and sent them to her, and I could not be more excited about how adorable everything turned out. They were truly perfect for Peyton's first trip!
On Monday (February 2nd), we stopped by Downtown Disney for some shopping and lunch before heading back home.
Aunt Laura even drove up to meet us for lunch at the Rainforest Cafe! Peyton loved being at the Rainforest. She was so entertained by all the animals and fish tanks around the restaurant.
Of course we had to stop by mommy's favorite store, World of Disney, for some shopping and to check out the princesses!
I promise that next trip mommy will brave the long lines and/or spend the Fastpasses on meeting the real live princesses in the park.
I collect Christmas ornaments from places we travel to, so of course I couldn't resist a special personalized one to commemorate Peyton's first visit.
Peyton had so much fun on her very first visit to Walt Disney World and she's already excited to go back again soon! Thank you to my wonderful family for making this such a special trip for Peyton, I will truly treasure these memories we shared together forever.
Back before I actually had a kid, I always said that I wouldn't take my kid to Disney until they were old enough to "appreciate" it. Yeah right. I should have known that was a never going to happen. Then I had a kid, and if it were up to me we would have gone to Disney straight from the hospital. Ok, not really. But basically ever since Peyton arrived, I've been dying to take her even though I know she won't remember it or even appreciate it at this age. However, I will remember it and my family will remember it, and we will appreciate it forever. In light of some unexpected and tragic events in my family over the years, I've learned that we cannot take a single day or a single occasion for granted. I no longer wait around for the "perfect" time to do something or put off things that I want to experience for a "better" time. There is no "perfect" time for anything. We are not guaranteed a tomorrow and I want Peyton to have as many special experiences as possible with the people who love her. Going to Disney with my parents and grandparents were always such special memories for me as a kid (even the trips I don't remember but have photographs of), and I want Peyton to be able to look back fondly on those memories just the same. So maybe taking a 7 month old to Disney is insane, but I know that the 8 of us adults still had a blast escaping to the Happiest Place on Earth and sharing in these cherished moments with Peyton. She might forget, but we never will.
Peyton and her entourage: Uncle Chris and Aunt Melissa, Auntie Erika, Daddy and Mommy, Grandma DeeDee, Grammy and Papa Jim
We arrived on Saturday (January 31st) afternoon and got all settled into our hotel room. We stayed at a new Disney hotel that I had never been to before, Disney's Art of Animation Resort.
Peyton (and us too!) loved exploring the hotel! It has four different sections all themed after different animated Disney movies (Finding Nemo, Lion King, Cars and Little Mermaid). We stayed in the Finding Nemo area of the hotel, which is closest to the main lobby and has the biggest pool at the resort! I can't wait to come back and stay at this hotel again and actually utilize the pool and other amenities. This hotel is perfect for families with young children. It is so fun and colorful, fully immersed in the art of Disney animation. In fact, all of the "decor" in the Finding Nemo area is designed to scale as if you were the size of Nemo! It's like you are really inside the movie. I was truly amazed by how cool this place is, so I can only imagine what kids must think of it.
That evening, we ventured over to Disney's Boardwalk for dinner.
Peyton wanted to sleep with Grandma DeeDee on her Nemo bed, but she had to go in her Pack-n-Play instead. I just love her adorable Disney Princess pajamas for the occasion!
Sunday morning (February 1st), we were up early and ready to take on the Magic Kingdom! Of course, Peyton had a special outfit for the occasion!
I'm so glad that Jared and I were able to have both of our families there for this special moment!
Our first trip to Disney as a family of three!
Disney + my baby girl = happiest mommy in the entire world
Waiting for the parade to start!
On It's a Small World, her first ride ever!
Mommy is a slacker and forgot to bring my child a hat. You're going to Disney World, to be outside in the sun all day and you don't bring the 7 month old a hat. Mommy fail. So I got to buy this super tacky, touristy looking Mickey hat in the park for her to wear. Luckily, this child can basically make anything look adorable so I'd say she did a pretty good job of rocking it :)
Peyton really enjoyed the outside rides the most. She loved Dumbo!
We love Dumbo! Even if Peyton's lack of a smile indicates otherwise.
Her favorite ride of the day, Cinderella's Carousel!
We had so much fun just watching her enjoy this experience! That was my favorite part of this whole trip, watching Peyton's reaction to all of the wonderful things that I already love so much about Disney. She was truly in awe and it made me so happy to see her so excited.
Another day, another outfit...and matching monogrammed bib of course :)
On Monday (February 2nd), we stopped by Downtown Disney for some shopping and lunch before heading back home.
Aunt Laura even drove up to meet us for lunch at the Rainforest Cafe! Peyton loved being at the Rainforest. She was so entertained by all the animals and fish tanks around the restaurant.
Of course we had to stop by mommy's favorite store, World of Disney, for some shopping and to check out the princesses!
I promise that next trip mommy will brave the long lines and/or spend the Fastpasses on meeting the real live princesses in the park.
I collect Christmas ornaments from places we travel to, so of course I couldn't resist a special personalized one to commemorate Peyton's first visit.
Peyton had so much fun on her very first visit to Walt Disney World and she's already excited to go back again soon! Thank you to my wonderful family for making this such a special trip for Peyton, I will truly treasure these memories we shared together forever.
Saturday, December 27, 2014
Peyton's 1st Christmas
We celebrated our first Christmas as a family of three in our new house this year. I was so excited that we got to be in our new home for this occasion. We moved in earlier this month and I haven't even unpacked majority of the house. I just wanted the rooms we were going to be using for Christmas morning (so the kitchen and living room) to be unpacked and decorated for Christmas and I figured that the rest of the house can wait until after Christmas. We had a wonderful 1st Christmas morning in our home for Peyton and I'm so glad that we got to share it with both of our families.
I've always wanted a house with stairs that I could decorate for Christmas so that I could take a Christmas morning family photo on them every year. Mission accomplished.
Moo Moo (Jared's grandma, Peyton's great-grandma) came all the way from Colorado to spend Peyton's first Christmas with her.
I've always wanted a house with stairs that I could decorate for Christmas so that I could take a Christmas morning family photo on them every year. Mission accomplished.
Excited to see what Santa brought us!
Waking up in our Christmas jammies and going downstairs to open presents!
All those packages under the tree are great, but I've got all I wanted for Christmas this year right here. And she's even got a bow on top too :)
The princess on her new throne. Thanks Grandma DeeDee!
Mommy's side of the family
Daddy's side of the family
The princess is ready to open her gifts. I don't think this child got enough presents this year. My goodness! For the record, Jared and I did not buy her a single gift for Christmas this year. All of these gifts are from our other family members. Y'all set the bar pretty high for years to come :)
Peyton wanted to help me open her gifts.
Handmade wooden growth chart from Auntie Erika, made by a friend of ours. I'm so in love with this thing and I can't wait to add it to Peyton's bedroom decor.
Peyton's first Lilly Pulitzer dress!
She got so many wonderful toys and she loves them all! I couldn't possibly post all of the photos of Peyton with her presents or else this would be the longest blog post ever. So I'll just spare you a few highlights.
Her first baby doll, a gift from Grammy. She loves to hold on to her hands or her dress and not let go. Adorable.
Peyton recently started to love looking at books on her own. She likes to touch the characters and try to turn the pages. She is just so mesmerized by books. I'm sure she will love reading just like me. This one was a gift from Auntie Erika...Frozen, of course :)
Peyton decided that Auntie Erika had the best wrapping paper...holiday kitties :)
I guess it's getting to that time where we are going to learn to pull up and stand (ah, growing so fast!) so we have a little walker now. She kept trying to touch the lion on the box. Anytime we read a book with a lion she always wants to touch it. She clearly loves lions, just like mommy.
Her handmade stocking that took my mom a year to make. Thanks Grandma DeeDee!
Who cares if we are 27/28 years old? We still wear festive hats on Christmas morning.
Christmas Day dinner at Grammy and Jim's house
Another adorable smocked outfit from Southern Tots.
Elf on a shelf!
Peyton and her grandmas.
Peyton got to meet her Great Auntie Mo for the first time!
We hope that your family had as wonderful of a Christmas as ours!
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